Beloved daughter of God, I am already praying for you.
“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
Healing begins with rest. As a prayerful, Christ-centered mentor, this is where we begin. First we abide, then we become. Jesus said, “For without Me, you can do nothing.” This includes actual, lasting change, deep inner healing, and vibrant growth.
Things we can work on together:
Becoming unshakeable in your identify as a daughter of God and what that means for your life, healing, and future
Standing in, and understanding, your spiritual authority
A gracious, Scriptural approach to overcoming food addiction
Healing from self-hatred
Embracing your creativity & calling as a maker or artist while working through imposter syndrome, self-sabotage, creative paralysis, mindset & emotional weight around artmaking, showing and selling your art, & healing your imagination
Refining your creative business & developing your path as you use your gifts to make money from home
Overcoming perfectionism, shame, or religious scrupulosity
Processing hurts from the past, emotional trauma, & grief
Embracing a gospel-centered approach to weight loss, body image, homemaking, business, and more
Freedom from performative faith and legalism
Deepening into your faith & understanding of God’s grace
Clarity on the gospel, sound doctrine, and Scripture
Flourishing in faith after spiritual abuse
Growing in Christ-centered wisdom and discernment following spiritual deception, New Age deception, or false gospels
Spiritual growth and more
Note: I offer the kind of mentorship I look for, which is deep listening and active feedback. When I hire a mentor, I want to know what they'd advise in my situation rather than for them to just ask me open-ended questions and have me come up with the answers. I prefer conversational back and forth, pausing to seek the Lord when needed, so this is what I provide for my clients.
For true, lasting healing and transformation of your body and your belief systems, explore options below for this tender, one-on-one work.
Shalom is here.
About my work
I am a faith-based Christian mentor and guide. I draw from the truth of Scripture, the leading of the Holy Spirit, prayer, experience, and wise counsel to offer guidance. I am not a pastor, doctor, mental health professional, or licensed counselor. My services are for personal support and mentorship, and do not constitute licensed mental health counseling, psychotherapy, or medical advice.
All your life, you’ve ached for transformation.
Maybe you’re an eldest daughter who carried a lot of weight and responsibility that wasn’t yours to carry.
Maybe you’re crushed by shame, legalism, perfectionism, or the burden of religious expectation, and you long for freedom, lightness, and joy in your faith.
Maybe you’ve fought against your body (and yourself) all your life, asking food or wine, or the New Age, or other people to do for you what only Jesus can.
The Lord is FOR you, sweet daughter of God. It’s time to rest now.
I am so excited to show you a gospel-centered way to heal and overcome deep-rooted self-hatred, untruthful & deceptive belief systems, emotional anguish, weight or body obsession, food addiction, or whatever else the Lord leads us to walk through.
in him we live and move and have our being.
Hello, beloved. Come find sabbath and shalom.
I’m Hillary, and I spent over 30 years fighting my body and myself.
I don’t want the same for you.
I hated myself and my body. To me, I could only “grow fat and sin.” Sin was bad and fat was bad, so I punished myself, deprived myself, indulged myself, neglected myself, and justified all kinds of sin and emotional & physical torment because I was a fat sinner and deserved the worst.
Mixed with legalism, Bible verses read out-of-context—I am a maggot and a worm!—and my own unrelenting religious scrupulosity, the truth got buried between chafing thighs, a heavy, swaying belly, and a loathsome double chin I clutched with savage hands, trying to tear off.
Furthermore, I was exhausted. As the oldest child in a large, dearly loved religious family, I grew so tired. Tired from constant failure to be a perfect daughter, a perfect Christian, a perfect sister, a perfect example, a perfect blessing. Tired from the immense amount of labor due to large family logistics. Tired in my soul from the weight of all the little eyes watching their big sister, while being held responsible for their attitudes, decisions, and moral choices. Tired from bearing the pressure of my unsaved relatives putting their grown-up eyes on me, waiting to see me fail and thus prove my family wrong. Tired of bearing the weight of displaying a perfect witness for my faith before all the eyes of the world.
What I’ve learned since…
The yoke of Christ is easy, and His burden is light.
Healing comes from being rooted in righteousness—Christ’s perfection, not your own.
Wisdom for life.
Info and investment. For payment plans or any other inquiries, please send a message here. I also offer a sliding scale for those in need.
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$495
We will meet face to face over Telegram, WhatsApp or FaceTime for one nourishing and prayerful 90-minute mentorship call. Within 48 hours I’ll send an email follow-up from our session with a summary of our call and any additional guidance, resources, or suggestions I have for you.
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$795
We will meet face to face over Telegram, WhatsApp or FaceTime for one nourishing and prayerful 90-minute mentorship call. Following our call, you’ll receive one week of unlimited additional support (during business hours) through the app—it’s like having a mentor in your pocket.
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$4599
We will meet face to face over Telegram, WhatsApp or FaceTime for nourishing and prayerful 90-minute mentorship calls twice per month for 3 months, for a total of 6 ninety-minute calls. During the 3-month season, you will also receive unlimited additional support (during business hours) through the app—it’s like having a mentor in your pocket. $4599
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$1200
Previous coaching clients can receive one month (30 days) of unlimited additional support (during business hours) through the app—it’s like having a mentor in your pocket.
(Please do not purchase unless you have experienced a 1:1 mentorship call with me in the last six months.)